In Korea there are these cookies called Margarets.
Don't ask me why they're called that, but what I do know is that Margaret cookies are basically soft almond cookies with a diamond pattern on top. They're pretty popular in Korea.
Well, it just so happens that I have a good friend named Margaret. And it just happens that she loves cookies...especially MY cookies.
Some friendships are just meant to be. I swear it on an almond cookie.
We met during our Freshman year at Oxford College, where we both enrolled in Art 101 during our first Fall semester. She sat in the front row, I sat in the second row, and we didn't get to talk much- in class nor outside of class. But one day, as I was getting ready to leave Williams Hall after my recreational dance class, she came in for her next class. One thing led to another and we were talking about our research papers for Art and how she needed a second opinion on her paper and I would love to look over it and hey, why don't we meet sometime around this place on this day and before I knew it two years had passed and I was baking her namesake cookies and writing a blog post about it.
I am so thankful for Margaret because our friendship came as a surprise to me. Even though I am Korean-born, I don't have a lot of Korean friends. It's just awkward...talking with both International and American-Korean students. I feel as though a stiff cultural barrier stands between us, as ironic as that sounds. I wish I could befriend a lot of them, but it's so difficult when I feel like we're each operating on different social wavelengths.
Margaret is a self-labled "Korean-Korean," and I'm, uh, stuck somewhere deep in the nuances of the Korean and American culture. But we're friends. I can list reasons why we are and why we couldn't or whatever, but at the end of the day, we are there for each other. We worry about each other, and we pray for each other. And that's what really matters.
Did any of you ever end up being friends with someone in a totally unexpected way? Someone that you thought you'd never be friends with?
Funny how life works out sometimes, huh?
:)